I feel so used!
I wish he'd leave me alone.
I can't wait until it is over.
I hate it!
I don't want him to see my body.
Do you come up with every excuse to say "No"? Headache? Too tired?
Do your sexual encounters feel obligatory?
If sex is supposed to be such an amazing thing, why do so many women dread it?
Could I ever find true pleasure in sex? YES!
Is it too late? NO!
Sex in the movies and on TV would have you believe that the act of a man thrusting and having an orgasm=female enjoyment. While I am sure this may be the case for some women, I am going to go out on a limb and say that most often, this is a lie. And this lie has led to dire consequences in the bedroom.
We live in an over sexualized culture, but there is such a lack of helpful truths.
Real sex is not like Hollywood shows. Time and time again, women who have such a sexual image disclose how miserable their sex life really is. Some people get lucky enough to figure it out on their own, but clearly this is not the case for many.
I am not an expert or trained counselor, just a mom who wants to encourage other moms. I want you to not only be more fulfilled and deeply connected with your spouse, but for your children to benefit from seeing a healthier and more stable relationship.